Jeffrey B. Logan
Seattle.
Jeff, having a cheating wife is a concern that haunts many men in relationships. Just the thought of your lady putting her paws on another man makes your skin crawl. That's why it's always important to keep a lookout for some of the surefire signs you have a cheating wife.
Signs of a Cheating Wife -The following are five signs (there are many more) you have a cheating wife:
> She's no longer as needy - If she was never able to go shopping, exercise or cross the street alone, and she suddenly doesn't need your company, it may mean that someone else is filling your shoes. It's possible that she just needs time to herself, but if she's unusually independent when she used to be overly needy, it may signal that she's just no longer as needy of you.
> She no longer gets angry - She used to get angry if you didn't want to meet her for lunch or come out with her and her friends, but now everything you do is all right by her. Once upon a time, your every move had to be premeditated, but now all the small things you used to mess up aren't enraging her. This could be a good thing, but it should make you wonder why she no longer cares.
> She's being secretive - She's no longer sharing her daily events with you, and in order to find out what she's doing, you'd have to hack into her Phone because she's not volunteering any information regarding the goings-on in her life.
> She places the focus on you - When you do ask her questions, she turns the tables on you. The former chatterbox's batteries have run out, and when you ask her how her night was, mum's the only word. It's now all about you, you, you, rather than "I did this" and "I went here last night."
> She showers you with pleasure - Now that it's all about you, she is always complimenting you, asking you to go out, giving you "I love you" cards for no reason whatsoever, and even offering to wash your car and watch the boxing match with you. While these gestures are more than sweet, it's this kind of overcompensating behavior that can make one suspicious. If she's bombarding you with niceties, it might be nice to know what's really going on.
There's no need to get paranoid and suspicious if she's exhibiting any of the signs you have a cheating wife. If you think her recent behavior isn't adding up or you catch her lying, do not accuse her of cheating. Think about whether or not she's given you a reason to suspect her of two-timing you, or whether it's your imagination running wild because you're afraid of losing her.
Here's how to handle your suspicions:
> you have a feeling - If you think she may be cheating, approach her but don't bring up the cheating. Ask her if everything is OK, and tell her that she's been acting different lately. Give her examples of how her behavior has changed, and tell her that you want to know and understand if there's a reason for it. There is a need to open the lines of communication and encourage her to open up about what is troubling her in the relationship, and proceed from there. When she's showing the signs you have a cheating wife, approaching her can be a delicate situation.
> You have more than a sneaking suspicion - If you have adequate reason to believe that she's cheating on you, do not accuse or threaten her because if you're wrong, she'll feel that you really don't trust her. Rather than exclaiming, "I know what's going on!" or "Who have you been messing around with?" ask, "Is there something I should know?" or "I have reason to believe that you're not being 100% honest with me.” This may seem passive, but you want to approach the topic carefully because if you're wrong, you may be messing up big time. If you're right, however, you have permission to raise hell.
> You catch her or have concrete evidence - If there is no way that this is a misunderstanding and you are positive that she's been pawing another dog, approach her with more assertion. Tell her what you saw, how it makes you feel, and what you plan to do about it. In addition you know your wife well enough the first signs are lack of interest, suddenly finding time to stay out of the house longer (Perhaps she is saying she is with friends more often than usual.), either acting a lot more kind or a lot more aggressive.
But I’ve noticed one of the key things is suddenly finding the time to stay away, believe me this is often one of the biggest and most noticed signs. If there is someone else they will make time for this person regardless. This could be tricky figuring out though because the could even say they have work when they don’t and go off with this person. This is when you might have to go “James Bond Status” you may have to spy around a little bit but if there is doubt you certainly shouldn’t stay silent and sit back while it all happens. Cell phone records, there's a product that can detect semen and you can test her underwear. If you're not doing it with her then there shouldn't be any residue to detect.
Make clear in your thoughts tat t statement which u r telling is true or it s just a doubt which made u to think n this extend. if u really loves her and want to continue your rest of your life then u sit and talk with her tat hw much u love her and also untrusted what she s thinking abut you .in case if she done a mistake it s your part to change her by means of your love & affection towards her instead of spending time to show her bad n front of all. Be clear either u want to continue wit her or not. If not please move out of her life without doing any detective work. Or finally to get the 100% answer to your dilemma hire a private detective to follow her and take photos as evidence. And stop pretending you’re Colombo and furthered more don’t grow to be stupid and paranoid.
Wishing you the best
F.C.Investigations
Frank Crescentini
California State License PI18368
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