My daughter thug boyfriend

Frank, I have a 17-year-old daughter who is dating a 15-year-old boy, whom I can't stand. He has lied to her about his health, saying that he is going to die in a few years from a heart condition. He is constantly manipulating her. He is clinically depressed, and is always picking fights with her. He gets upset when she wants to see her friends and not him. He is very clingy. She has told me that they are sexually active, which makes it even worse, because it will probably be harder for her to break up with him. Unfortunately, she THINKS she is in love with him 

I have tried talking to her and begging her to break up with him because he is bad news. I'm at my wits end.

Thank you

Suzann W. Seattle. 

Suzann, If you think this “individual” have ghosts in his closet, get a professional and present a copy of this guy to your daughter I am sure she will get the point, you can e-mail me privately I will give you a list of PI’s in your area and you can use my name. However back to the problem, oppression begets rebellion in us all--especially children in their early teens. She's 17 so reverse psychologies are out. Besides, it never really works. 

I received a check...

Good day Frank, I received a check from a lady the other day and she seemed fishy, come to find out the check she wrote me was issued on an account that was closed. I have her drivers license # and phone #. I am unsure what are the proper steps to take. The amount was for $1.000.00 and change. 
Any help or ideas on the proper way to tackle this situation? 
Do you think her bank give me a papers stating that the account is closed?
Thank you

“OK if the lady seemed fishy” why you took the check? However call your customer (the fishy lady) and make her aware of the bounce check and see if she has other means of payment. If she does not tell her you are going to the police and charges will be filed. Other option doesn’t even bother calling your customer and go straight to the police. Before you go to the police make sure you have a statement from the bank where she banks at stating that the funds are not available. Make a copy of the check and statement for your records and go to the police please make no mistakes about it Police are NOT a collection agency and they will not guarantee that you will get your money back they go after a crime I am not an attorney but I am sure and depends on states over $500.00 it is a felony! . Then go to small claims court sue your customer for the amount of the check and court cost and filing fees. But my advice before you’re investing time and more money discuss this situation with your family attorney and follow his/her advices. Good luck, and next time follow your first felling. 

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Frank Crescentini

I know about the betrayal, what next?

Frank Over a year ago I found out my wife cheated on me. We are still married but I still haven’t said anything to her. Should I say anything or just let it go.
Thank you for any advice, love this keep dewing a good job. 
Ramon O, Jr. Oxnard

Ramon, Ask her if she wants to try swinging or polyamory. I don’t know your views on non-monogamy, but if she responds positively to your suggestion, the two of you should seriously look into the possibilities. Obviously her cheating was unfortunate because it involves deception, but you need to distinguish between whatever pain you feel from the deception, and whatever feelings you might have about non-monogamy. You can’t change the past, but you can set sail for a more promising future if you establish a new commitment together. This new commitment is not the traditional “forsaking all others” that you find in conventional marriage ceremonies, but a commitment of partnership through the adventures yet to come. At some point you should probably tell her that you know about her previous cheating, but you should do this at a time when you are feeling like you love her – NOT at a time when you are feeling bitter or resentful. 

We don't have to live like this!

Dear friends, I like to bring up the tragic situations append in California (Santa Barbara) location that I have many friends. And I am talking about 3 handguns, 400 bullets, 6 murdered, 13 wounded. Yes I like to give you my point on Elliot Rodger. Killer Rodger wrote a rambling “massacre manifesto” before his knife and gun rampage, describing his burning resentment against woman and hatred of the world. This individual emailed 140-page document entitled “My Twisted World” to his parents and his psychiatrist. Now I like to show to you the criticism that I have for The Sheriff Department
PATH OF CARNAGE
1) 9.27PM two women shot dead and third injured outside Alpha Phi sorority house.
2) 9.30PM Victim number three killed inside Isla Vista Deli Mart
3) 9.31PM Rodger drives on wrong side of the rood, firing at peoples
4) 9.33PM Deputies fire back at Rodger until he flees
5) 9.33PM He runs over and injures a cyclist
6) 9.33PM Four people shot by side of the road
7) 9.37PM Rodger found dead from bullet wound after crashing into a police car
8) NEXT DAY: Bodies of three people stabbed to death found at his apartment.

Betrayal and forgiveness

Frank, my husband cheated on me with much older women. He told me sorry that it was a huge mistake and it will never happen again. I don't know why he did this, because I was always faithful to him. It's been over a year ago, but I just can't help wondering if it's going to happen again. Would I feel better about myself if I cheated on him, would It help me to forget the pain that's he put me through??

But “I just can't help wondering if it's going to happen again." 

Dear friend, In my 20 years as a Private Investigator let me give you my point of view exactly, because apologies and promises don't fix the problem. Did he ever tell you the REASON why he cheated? Nope... he just said he was sorry and wouldn't do it again. So why wouldn't he do it again? Your right, he would... because he never fixed the problem, he just apologized and moved forward and so did you. 

He will cheat again, guaranteed... not just because he did it before, but because he never fixed the reason why he did it before. 

Searching Malaysia Air Boeing 777 Flight 370.

Dear friends and followers I received an interesting e-mail again asking about the Malaysia Air Boeing 777 Flight 370. With 239 people on board disappeared.

And the question was: 

Q: Mr. Frank I am really surprised that we can't locate the plane. In this day and age we have the Internet, snapshot, Skype, all this modern technology. And then we even are able to spy from miles Cyrus or Justin Bieber and find Exactly where they are, but we can't find a plane? What gives?

A: Ok I will give you my take on this one my friend, first off sorry I am not interest on imbeciles like Mr. Bieder he should be sitting his ass in jail long time ago with no possibility of parole. Now in response to your question the plane is somewhere on the bottom of the Atlantic Ocean which in some regions is so deep that no regular submarine can get to it. In addition, it probably broke apart when hitting the water and the small parts were crushed and sank. To get an idea of what that means, just throw a corn of sugar into your bathtub full of dirty black water, and see if using Skype or Facebook will help you finding it again, ever. !! 

Just for kicks, also goggle Japan Airlines flight 1628 you will get my point in reference to this phenomenon you can direct question's to my best friend Aurelio Nicolazzo an expert in material .

Sincerely,
Frank Crescentini
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What is the Definition of Terrorism?

     I will give you my interpretations of the word over my 20 years of involvement in this topping with my military and counter terrorism experience (just to be clear my friends, Counter Terrorism isn’t a specific unit, there are various military units who specialized in Counter Terrorism). The use of violence and threats to intimidate or coerce esp., for political purposes. The state of fear and submission produced by terrorism or terrorization. Throughout human history, there have been many threats to the security of nations. These threats have brought about large-scale losses of life, the destruction of property, widespread illness and injury, the displacement of large numbers of people, and devastating economic loss The best definition of terrorism is the French words: Organization Armee Secrete.OAS for short. These guys were the most consummate terrorists in world history. The OAS makes Al Quaeda look like first class sissies. If the United States was subjected to the type of terrorism the OAS practiced, the white flags would have been run up long ago. Algerique Françoise I would simply say that Terrorism is what we call violence until it wins. Then it becomes a 'war of liberation or Independence or revolution'. Makes no difference what you call it KILLING IS WRONG. I believed that definition given is simple and clear. But pay attention then again even yelling “fire” in a crowded theater could be called terrorism too. I will welcome any of your comments.
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What is domestic violence?

"Frank I am a girl from California I like to keep my name anonymous, I like to ask you a question so I can understand my situation what are the signs of domestic violence? Thank you sir."

Dear anonymous girl, It is my motto to do not answer any question to individuals that don’t have the face to introduce their self. However this is a very sad question and thinking that you are one of the victims I will make an acception.

Dominance — Abusive individuals need to feel in charge of the relationship. They will make decisions for you and the family, tell you what to do, and expect you to obey without question. Your abuser may treat you like a servant, child, or even as his possession. 

Humiliation — An abuser will do everything he can to make you feel bad about yourself, or defective in some way. After all, if you believe you're worthless and that no one else will want you, you're less likely to leave. Insults, name-calling, shaming, and public put-downs are all weapons of abuse designed to erode your self-esteem and make you feel powerless. 

Isolation — In order to increase your dependence on him, an abusive partner will cut you off from the outside world. He may keep you from seeing family or friends, or even prevent you from going to work or school. You may have to ask permission to do anything, go anywhere, or see anyone. Source: Domestic Abuse Intervention Project, MN 

Threats — Abusers commonly use threats to keep their victims from leaving or to scare them into dropping charges. Your abuser may threaten to hurt or kill you, your children, other family members, or even pets. He may also threaten to commit suicide, file false charges against you, or report you to child services. 

Intimidation — Your abuser may use a variety of intimation tactics designed to scare you into submission. Such tactics include making threatening looks or gestures, smashing things in front of you, destroying property, hurting your pets, or putting weapons on display. The clear message is that if you don't obey, there will be violent consequences. 

Denial and blame — Abusers are very good at making excuses for the inexcusable. They will blame their abusive and violent behavior on a bad childhood, a bad day, and even on the victims of their abuse. Your abuser may minimize the abuse or deny that it occurred. He will commonly shift the responsibility onto you: Somehow, his violence and abuse is your fault.
May the Lord guide you and protect you.